Is Masculinity the Problem or the Solution?

Is Masculinity the Problem or the Solution?

In this episode of the Rokman Podcast, I sit down with BJ Stagner to break down one of the most debated topics right now — toxic masculinity, the rise of the manosphere, and why so many men feel lost, stuck, and unfulfilled.


We look at what’s really going on beneath the surface.


Men today are being pulled in two directions. On one side, they’re told masculinity is toxic, dangerous, and something to suppress. On the other, they’re sold an extreme version of masculinity built on ego, dominance, and material success.


So what’s the truth?


We unpack why the rise of the manosphere isn’t the root problem — it’s a reaction. A reaction to a lack of direction, lack of role models, and a lack of real masculinity.


And more importantly, we break down what real masculinity actually looks like.